JCU Love Letters 2.0
#6119
Reply to #6107
Maybe, just maybe, it’s a way of letting you down softly?
Some people, especially empaths or “people pleasers” aren’t comfortable with letting someone down.
I am in a similar situation, there was mild chemistry at first (stronger on their side undoubtedly), finally gave in, wanting to please. But felt in my soul that this person was no more than a friend, and I made them aware of this as early as possible out of respect. But I feel they still believe that there is a possibility of romantic connection.
Some people are closed, hard to open up, even if they are really nice and seem “outgoing”. But sometimes its just better to read between the lines or simply go with your gut, what your intuition is screaming at you. Most of the time it’s on the money.